What anonymous actually means
Reviews publish under a stable anonymous handle — the kind of label you see as Anonymous #4821. Your name, your email address and your photo never appear next to a review, and the handle is the same one your replies use, so a follow-up question reaches the same person without revealing who they are.
- Your identity isn’t displayed publicly.
- Your account id is removed on the server before a review is ever sent to a browser. There is no field to inspect, no API call to make and no way to join a review back to you from the public site.
- Anonymous questions work the same way in both directions: the reviewer sees the question, not who asked it.
- Anonymous does not mean unaccountable. Reports and moderation records are tied to an account, so a pattern of abuse is visible to a moderator even when a review is not.
We can identify an author in one situation: where we are legally compelled to, or where someone’s safety is at stake and a report gives us a specific, credible reason. We do not disclose an author simply because a subject dislikes what was written.
What we block before a review can publish
Two classes of content cannot be published at all. The check runs as you write and again on the server, and it is a hard block — you cannot dismiss the warning and submit anyway.
Private contact details
- Phone numbers, in any of the usual separations or none at all.
- Email addresses and social handles written with a domain.
- Home or work addresses, and any other detail that locates someone precisely.
Diagnoses and labels
Words that diagnose or label someone rather than describe what happened — including narcissist, psycho, sociopath, bipolar, crazy, insane, mental problems, criminal, stalker and abuser — are refused.
This is not politeness, it is accuracy. “He’s a narcissist” is a verdict nobody reading it can check. “Communication became inconsistent about two months after we became exclusive” is something a reader can weigh, and it is the version we ask for. If you hit this screen, describe the behaviour instead.
Everything else is caught by reporting and moderation rather than by a filter, because a filter cannot tell the difference between a hard truth and a cruel one.
One review per person, per author
One account can hold one review of one person. If you try to write a second, you are told: “You’ve already shared your experience with this person. Edit that review instead.”
- No pile-ons. Ten angry reviews cannot be written by one person across ten accounts.
- No sock puppets. Creating a second account to write a second review breaches the Terms.
- Changed your mind? Edit your existing review rather than adding a new one, so the history stays readable.
The same limit protects the subject in the other direction: a single person’s view cannot masquerade as a consensus.
Reporting
Every review, every message and every person profile can be reported. Choose a reason, add detail if you want to, and it goes into the moderation queue.
Report reasons
- Harassment
- Threats
- Spam
- False or misleading content
- Personal or private information
- Inappropriate content
- Impersonation or fake review
- Other policy violation
What happens next
- The report is recorded against the content and reviewed by a human moderator — not decided by an algorithm.
- You do not see who reported what, and the author is not told who reported them.
- Reporting is rate-limited (20 per hour per account) so it cannot be used to bury a review you dislike.
- A moderator can leave the review up, hide it, or remove it. If it is hidden or removed, the author is told that it happened — not by whom.
If you are the subject of a review you believe is false: report it with the reason False or misleading content or Impersonation or fake review, and include the specific claim you dispute. We do not remove a review because it is unflattering, and we do not reveal the author to you.
Anti-harassment, blocking and messages
Messaging is anonymous and private. Reviewers can accept, decline, block or report messages at any time.
- Accept opens the conversation. Decline closes it without a reply. Both are the reviewer’s alone to make.
- Block ends the conversation and records a block, so the same person cannot reach you again. You can review and remove your blocks in Settings.
- Either side can report the conversation. Harassment and threats are the fastest route to losing an account.
- You can turn question requests off entirely in Settings, and stay anonymous by default.
What counts as harassment here
- Repeated contact after a decline or a block, including through a new account.
- Trying to identify a reviewer, or threatening to. Asking someone to break anonymity — in either direction — is itself a violation.
- Threats, coercion, or publishing anything about someone to pressure them.
- Using Genie to organise contact with someone off the platform when they have not agreed to it.
Breaches end in a hidden or removed review, a suspended account, or a ban, depending on what happened. We do not negotiate these.
Moderation and auto-hide at three reports
- A published review that collects three independent reports is hidden automatically, pending human review. Hiding is not removal: a moderator can restore it if the reports do not hold up.
- Hidden reviews stop counting towards a person’s scores immediately, so a coordinated attack cannot inflate or sink a rating while it is being reviewed.
- Every action is written to an audit log with the actor and the reason.
The moderation queue lives at /app/moderation and is limited to owners, admins and moderators. If you open it without one of those roles you will see “Moderator access required.” — that message is the permission check working, not a bug. Ask an owner of your community to change your role if you should have access.
What Genie is not
- Not a background check. We hold no criminal records, no credit data, no employment history and no identity documents.
- Not a verification service. We do not confirm that a profile is the person you are dating, and reviewers are not verified either.
- Not a safety guarantee. A clean profile means nobody has written anything, which is not the same as everyone saying something good.
- Not evidence. Reviews are one person’s account of their own experience. They are opinions, they can be wrong, and they are not a basis for decisions about housing, employment, credit, immigration or child custody.
- Not a substitute for your own judgement. Use what you read to ask better questions, then trust what you observe.
If you are in danger
Genie is not an emergency service and nobody is monitoring it around the clock. If you believe you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency number, and if you are dealing with stalking or domestic abuse, contact a local support service that can help you plan safely. Reporting content here does not contact the authorities on your behalf.
Where a report describes a credible threat to someone’s safety, we act on it, and we will preserve and disclose what we are legally required to.
For anything a report button cannot carry — a safety concern, an appeal against a moderation decision, a legal request — email safety@genie.app. Appeals are read by a different person than the one who made the original decision wherever possible.
See the Terms of Service and the Privacy Policy for the formal version of everything above.